tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31811675.post8861857910366438763..comments2023-10-31T11:28:00.092-05:00Comments on The Ivy's: Lord, give me patience with my sweet Tyler.....Robinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11567449327977997001noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31811675.post-64453196689820417212008-04-29T11:19:00.000-05:002008-04-29T11:19:00.000-05:00Praying for you and Tyler honey. God will give yo...Praying for you and Tyler honey. God will give you insight all along how to deal with Tyler's curiosity if you stay open and say a quick prayer when you feel you need help. MaeMae said, be thankful he does ask questions - No telling how God will use him and his curiosity. Love Moma.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31811675.post-32030722855309989182008-04-12T12:26:00.000-05:002008-04-12T12:26:00.000-05:00I smiled when I read this, because with the twins ...I smiled when I read this, because with the twins and Aaron we are going through this same thing. And when I write this and I telling myself this too: You are not alone in this struggle. I thought for some reason I was the only one dealing with this. But as I can see and should have know I am not alone. I get so tired of all 3 boys talking and asking a million and 1 questions. I finally have to ask each of them to just be quiet and let mommy's head stop spinning. I get the questions as soon as they get up and they don't stop until they go to bed. I understand how you feel about feeling gulity about not wanting to answer them all, when God gave them to us to help them learn and grow. And to do that they have to ask questions. I just have a hard time with question after question. <BR/>I also too like when you asked God to help see what Tyler sees through his eyes. I have been doing that myself with things that they do and ask. I ask how would I want someone to deal with me if I did this or asked this. <BR/>And it makes things harder to deal with nicely when you are tired have a 7 month old and a baby on the way. Give your self a breather every day and just keep telling yourself you are the mom God made you to be. And just ask God to help you grow in the areas he wants you to grow. It will get better!!<BR/>Mommy of 5mommyof7 (2inheaven)https://www.blogger.com/profile/10125869209600225709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31811675.post-65718739368439231312008-04-11T17:19:00.000-05:002008-04-11T17:19:00.000-05:00Yes, girl, I too only wanted to post happy, cute t...Yes, girl, I too only wanted to post happy, cute things my kids did. But if feels good to be honest and real with struggles doesn't it? :) <BR/>Jake is doing this some too. One thing I started was to give a really silly answer to all the silly questions. "why, mom?" when he knows why, or there is NO why...I'll say, "Because turkey-goose Jake." He'll laugh, say, no Mom! and that changes the subject. I also really liked what you said about praying to see Tyler through God's eyes. Today I prayed for more compassion for Jake, just as God has compassion for us. The reason he hangs on me and always wants me to play is because he loves me! He needs me! When I see things through his eyes and also as God sees him, it helps. I'm right here with you girlfriend!Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14074050884179414525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31811675.post-35926918627364561602008-04-11T16:00:00.000-05:002008-04-11T16:00:00.000-05:00I haven't been there yet either, but I'll be sure ...I haven't been there yet either, but I'll be sure to keep you in my prayers. You are the most patient person I know, so I can just imagine me in that situation! :) Love ya girl!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03041913544102739619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31811675.post-23914799260218212072008-04-11T13:26:00.000-05:002008-04-11T13:26:00.000-05:00Girl, I totally feel for you! Having a toddler/pr...Girl, I totally feel for you! Having a toddler/preschooler, a baby and one on the way is a difficult task. It's hard to find the patience on a day to day basis! My SIL posts notes for herself around the house with the words HAVE PATIENCE or my favorite I LOVE MY CHILDREN. LOL Sometimes we need those little reminders to make it through a tough day. I say Ryan's ignoring is a good idea too after the last answerable question...he'll get the picture sooner or later ; ) Hugs and hang in there!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31811675.post-24002792093189677812008-04-11T09:08:00.000-05:002008-04-11T09:08:00.000-05:00I wish I had words of wisdom for you...but I obvio...I wish I had words of wisdom for you...but I obviously haven't been through that stage. We'll be praying for you!Deannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05626695904276334418noreply@blogger.com